11. Your Horse Hasn’t Killed You
Seriously, walk into the barn and kiss your
horse on the face for not killing you every chance he gets. Horses are obviously
several times larger than humans, weigh at least 10 times as much, and could
easily smash any of our heads in at any moment. But they don’t. They let us
saddle them and bridle them and climb onto their back and ask them to do all
sorts of crazy things. Whether you are jumping over a hunter course, doing
advanced dressage, or just going on a trail ride, your horse absolutely has the
capacity to murder you, but they don’t. Even when humans are injured from
horses, it’s very rarely intentional and often a product of our own
mistakes. Remind yourself of this when
you put a humiliating Santa hat on your horse’s head this holiday season and
give them a big kiss on the nose.
2. Your
Horse is Your Best Friend
I know that if my Jack Russel, Rufus, read
this he would be very upset because he’s certain he has a monopoly in this
area. So operating off the assumption that you can have more than one “best
friend,” your horse absolutely falls into this category. Think about it, they
are literally always there whenever you want to hang out. They spend hours at
time with you. They never betray you (except when they spook at the end of a
perfect trip and you want to kill them), and they are constantly up for ear
scratches or neck rubs. Your horse is never going to bail on you to go hang out
with their boyfriend, or tell your secrets to anyone else. They are the perfect
companions.
3. Your Horse is Your Therapist
3. Your Horse is Your Therapist
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Spending an afternoon at the barn has more
positive effects on a human than you might think. The benefits are seemingly
endless: being outdoors in a peaceful and calm environment, connecting with
nature, silencing your mind, and quieting your anxiety. It gives you a break
from the rest of the world and the rest of your life for however long you want.
There is science behind it too. Horses are proven to have positive effects on
people struggling with addiction, those who are incarcerated, those who are
chronically ill, men between the ages of 21 and 35, sad people, stupid people,
single people, students, doctors, lawyers … My point is horses have a
therapeutic effect on all people.
Next time you are feeling down, go give your horse a hug. I guarantee it will
make you smile.
4. Your Horse Teaches You
4. Your Horse Teaches You
Sure, most horses play a big role in
teaching you how to ride. But for kids (and adults) horses have the ability to
teach them so much more than what they would grasp just by being told. For
example, taking care of my pony after a long day before taking care of myself
taught me responsibility. Riding five horses a day and taking care of each one
taught me discipline, the value of hard work, and perseverance. Standing out in
the cold to hold your horse for the vet or the farrier will teach you how to
endure for the sake of another creature. Giving the grooms the day off and
feeding the horses on Christmas morning before opening our presents, well that
taught us patience, kindness and compassion. It also gave us perspective. Doing
things the right way and winning results in confidence. Hundreds of riders
learn to overcome their fears and achieve things they never thought possible.
They owe it to their kind and patient horses.
Although, its true that horses are not
always kind and gentle when teaching us. Every once in in a while (usually
while watching the junior divisions) I’ll see a horse put his rider in her
place. A common example is when the rider leans up the neck at a long distance
and the horse stops short sending the kid flying. The kid gets furious, but you
can see the trainer just smiling. That horse just taught the rider not to do
the exact thing the trainer has been screaming about for the last three
weeks.
Although similar to teaching you, this is more like when your horse reminds you. Remember that time you thought you were
going to show off, leave out a stride and hold the counter lead to through the
turn, and instead you ended up in the middle of an oxer with dirt stains on
your breeches and bruised ass? Horses are great at reminding you of exactly
what you are capable of and whenever you get a big head and you can be sure
they will put you in your place. This is also one of the benefits of riding
green horses.
My equitation horse was notorious for doing
this. Although he embarrassed me quite a bit in front of the fancy “made”
horses we competed against, he would not let me get away with anything. Oh, you think you are gonna cross your hand
over my neck to get me to move over? I don’t think so, here’s a swap and
swished tail. Oh, you are gonna go to your spur before your leg? Here’s a giant
bucking spree across the end of the ring. Oh, you’re not gonna get straight
before you ask me to jump? Well then I’m not jumping. Although it
frustrated me at the time, I became a better rider for it. And I learned to
stick within my capabilities and do things the right way before advancing.
6. Your Horse Makes You Look Good
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7. Your Horse Doesn’t Judge You
Yea, remember that time you showed up in
mismatched socks, slung your helmet on over your ponytail and kicked around
bareback for a half hour because you were too lazy to tack up…. Your horse
won’t judge you. Your trainer will, your barn friends will, and you can bet
your competition will. And that’s one of
the hardest things to accept about this sport: it is so subjective and full of
opinions from every angle. Are you
wearing the right helmet? The trendiest breeches? The newest show coat? The
fanciest boots? Sometimes I think
people need to be more like their horses: stop judging and just enjoy your time
at the barn. In the meantime, its nice knowing at least your horse will look
past your appearance and give you the same respect as always.
I was constantly reminded of this as a kid
from my mother. Whenever I asked her for a pair of stretchy low rise breeches,
or to indulge me with the newest helmet trend, she would say something like,
“do you think Phantom cares what kind of pants your wearing?” or “It’s not
going matter what helmet your wearing if you don’t make it over the jumps.”
Thanks mom. Point taken.
8. Your Horse Makes You Fit
Anyone who has ever sat on a horse for more
than 10 minutes can attest to the muscle required to ride effectively. But most
of us who do it all the time forget it. It wasn’t until I worked in an office
eight hours a day that I realized the exercise benefits of just going to the
barn. Walking out to the paddock, moving jumps, grooming your horse, riding,
unloading hay etc. I would be lying if I said I wasn’t sore the day after going
to the barn.
9. Your Horse Makes You Aware
From the moment you start handling horses
you become more aware of your surroundings. You get your foot stepped on one
time, and now you are aware of where your feet are. You learn to be aware of
where you stand, how you hold the lead, how loud your voice is… These are all
things we become aware of when learning basic horsemanship.
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10. Your
Horse Will Love You No Matter What
I think of this every time I see Moose
after being gone for a week. I feel guilty that I can’t spend more time with
him. I feel sad that no one has loved him like I do since the last time I saw
him. Of course, my trainer says I’m crazy and nothing makes him happier than
spending 12 hours a day in a giant grass filled paddock with his little pony
buddy. But it makes me sad nonetheless.